Sunday, July 21, 2013

10 Tips for Telling a Story

Most of these tips come from Steve Quant's presentation at the Child Ambassador conference in January, 2013. To see his presentation and hear even more of his tips, check out the YouTube video: Storytelling. I highly recommend it!

Some people are natural storytellers. They seem to intuitively know how to captivate the hearts and minds of their listeners. They can take an awful experience and make it a cherished family memory through the way they weave their tale. They can share a memory and bring us to tears. We experience their moment vicariously because, through their vivid words, we're there, too.

Others, though, are more like me. I want to be a natural storyteller. I love a good story but, sometimes, when I get started talking, the story seems to slip away. And as a child ambassador, I want need to be able to tell a story that will capture my listener's heart. Fortunately for me, though, good storytelling can be learned.

Here are 10 tips for telling a story:

1. Start at the beginning end and work backwards.

What does that mean? Try starting out your story with a little taste of the end -- just enough to capture your listener's interest but not enough to give anything away. For example -- "Did you know that a little boy in Mozambique changed my life?" or "Angelena Josephina is just 10 years old and dreams of being a doctor."

Why is this a good idea? Well, if you don't know where you're going with your story, how are you going to get there? Starting with a glimpse of the end gives your story a framework to build on. It also creates interest and curiosity on the part of your listener.

In other words, don't start out with World Vision's mission statement. This can come later, after you've grabbed their attention with your story. (If you're struggling to find a story, please call or email me and I'll gladly help you.)

2. Put yourself last.

Don't use "I" at the start of your presentation/story. Try "Would you like to hear an amazing story?" or "Do you know that a bicycle saved a life in Sri Lanka?"

3. Never be typical.

Talk naturally in a way that works for you. Use your own spin or style. The Lord has created each of us as unique individuals. Be okay with who you are and don't compare your style to someone else's style.

4. Use your own language.

Be conversational, not presentational. Try not to use terms that your audience isn't familiar with and talk to them like they're your best friend. Relax. :)

5. Don't read to me.

If you're using a Powerpoint, don't read from it. If everything you're saying is already written down in the Powerpoint, then why are you there? Use a Powerpoint as a visual tool to build on the stories you are telling.

6. Find another angle.

Try looking at your story from a new lens. Put yourself in someone else's shoes.

Imagine a picture of a float at the Rose Bowl. A typical story or caption would read, "This float is comprised of ____ flowers and took ____ hours to complete..." A new angle could be from the perspective of someone sitting on it. "My cheeks hurt from smiling so long and I still have two more hours to go!"

If you are showing a picture, don't just describe the facts. "This is a slum in New Delhi where over ____ children are living on the streets." What about a new angle, instead? "These children don't have a place to sleep tonight. They forage in waste cans or beg from people passing by in order to survive. They don't have anyone read them a story or tuck them in at night..." By switching the angle from which you tell your story, it may become more compelling.

7. Speak visually.

Use imagery in your story and set the scene. Was it raining? What season was it? Describe your setting using visual terms that evoke a sense of place -- describe the colors, sights, sounds, feelings... The longer the story, the more visual cues you may need. Keep it interesting.

8. What's the point? 

Each story should include an element of "why." Why do you care? Why will they care? Make an emotional connection with your story yourself and, odds are, you'll make an emotional connection with your audience, as well.

9. Make a call to action.

Ask. Don't just assume that people will sponsor a child if you tell them about it. Invite them to be part of this work.

10. Be sure of your facts.

As child ambassadors with World Vision, we need to be certain our information is accurate. A good rule of thumb is, "If Rich Stearnes (CEO of World Vision) was in my audience, would I be comfortable saying this?"


If you get a chance, try watching the complete version of Steve Quant's storytelling presentation on the link given at the top of the post. I personally found it super helpful and think my presentations have become more compelling as a result. I hope it can be of service to you, as well! 

May the Lord continue to bless each of you in your ministries and lives!


Wednesday, July 17, 2013

Introducing ASK August: Will You Accept the Challenge?

Last week, my boys had a lemonade stand in our front yard. We're located in a cul-de-sac right off from a busy street (prime real estate for lemonade stands :) ). They held their signs and smiled and waved and hoped for someone to be sweet enough to stop. Cars passed. Trucks passed. No one stopped for the longest time. Finally, a kind soul pulled over and the boys were overjoyed. A real live customer! It was fantastic. But it took time.

Did you know that, on average, a person will hear 10 "no's" before they will hear a "yes?" I know at least 10 cars (probably more like 20!) drove by before my kids experienced one "sale." At first they were discouraged but they hung in there and kept going and, in the end, I was shocked when they made over $20 at their little roadside stand! Talk about perseverance!

Sometimes, as child ambassadors, it's easy for us to get discouraged, too. Child sponsorship is important to us and we want so much for others to catch that vision but we hear more "no's" than "yes'." It can be hard to hear "no," right?

But what if we made "no" our goal?

What if, rather than thinking only a "yes" is a success, we focus instead on just asking, letting a "yes" be a pleasant surprise?

Welcome to "ASK August," where we set a goal of simply asking others to consider child sponsorship without the goal and pressure of hearing "yes." It's all about the ask.

Have you ever wanted to tell your family member about World Vision but have worried it'll feel awkward? Tell them about Ask August and give it a whirl. If nothing else, it'll give you great practice!

Have you ever wondered about your own church or that church on the corner -- would they let you present sponsorship? Set up an appointment and ask them about it. (If you need a little help in this area, I'd be glad to assist you).

What if you put up a table at a Farmer's Market -- how many no's might you hear? You might get a full week's quota of no's (5-7) in a single day. Whoot! Whoot!

So, who will take on this challenge with me? Let's go for it, challenge ourselves to step outside of our comfort zone, and see what will happen!  To do this:

1. Make a list of people and places you can ask.
2. Order your picture folders now so they will be here by August.
3. Ask your coordinator any questions you may have about your ministry.
4. If you aren't already on the CA Facebook page, check it out. There will be lots of motivating tips and stories to help keep us going. Child Ambassadors Facebook page and our regional page Regional Facebook page
5. Let me know you're participating in this challenge. It'll be a lot more fun and motivating if we can share with each other how we're doing! I'll also specifically pray for you!


“God has not called me to be successful; He has called me to be faithful.” ~Mother Teresa

Thursday, July 11, 2013

Journey to Jamaa: a World Vision experience and a great resource for your CA ministry!


Are you familiar with the film, Journey to Jamaa? Jamaa is an award-winning short film based on the incredible true story of two children in Uganda. It was originally designed to be part of a Sunday morning worship experience but there are many other ways you can use it for your ministry. It's a fantastic resource for sharing sponsorship with others! 

Following are a few ideas for ways to use Journey to Jamaa in your ministry:

1. As part of a Sunday morning service
If your church has agreed to do a Hope Sunday, you may want to see if they would be interested in hosting  J2J as part of the Sunday morning service. What would that be like? Check out this link to get an idea of how that could work: http://jamaa.worldvision.org/

2. As a movie night for church
J2J could be used as a movie night at church or for small groups. This works particularly well if you could pair it with a little music worship time as the movie is shorter (35 min).

3. Home Movie Party 
If you've been looking for a way to share with neighbors, family, and friends about your CA ministry but can never find the words or if you feel like they just don't understand why this  ministry is so important to you, try a J2J movie night in your home. This movie will help put it all into words for you. Try using some Ugandan recipes for an additional way to connect with the region!

4. Lunch Break at Work
In some workplaces, it may be possible to advertise a J2J showing and host it over a lunch break. Check with your workplace and see if it could work for you.
  
5. Ministry Groups
Men's breakfasts, Women's luncheons, MOPS groups... See if they would like to host a showing.

6. Community Movie
One church hosted an outdoor movie showing in a community park. They put up a big screen and advertised it around the community. They had a great showing and even used it as a  springboard for community outreach.

7. Local Colleges
A local college used J2J as part of a ministry fair. To get into the college, I needed a student to request that it be there. The students loved it! They laughed, cried and applauded. It was an incredible  experience!

8. Youth Groups/ YoungLife
It never hurts to check with your local youth and see if there is an interest.

9. ??? Any other ideas? Share them with me and I'll pass them on to the other CAs. Let us know what works for you!

If you would like a copy of Journey to Jamaa to use for your ministry, please email me and I will request one for you!